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Boundaries with Kids has helped my husband and I to not only be on the same page with our discipline methods but also to really focus on how our three kids’ behaviors right now in the present will affect their future when they are on their own. It has helped us to set boundaries for them and is also teaching our kids to learn to set firm boundaries on their own with their lives. I’ve yet to find a book on raising children that is so clear and effective and really guides you through how to be an effective parent for the good of your kids’ future.”
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The Blessing of Confrontation

Ezekiel 3:17-21: “At the end of seven days the word of the Lord came to me (Ezekiel): “Son of man, I have made you a watchman for the people of Israel; so hear the word I speak and give them warning from me. When I say to a wicked person, ‘You will surely die,’ and you do not warn them or speak out to dissuade them from their evil ways in order to save their life, that wicked person will die for a their sin, and I will hold you accountable for their blood. But if you do warn the wicked person and they do not turn from their wickedness or from their evil ways, they will die for their sin; but you will have saved yourself. Again, when a righteous person turns from their righteousness and does evil, and I put a stumbling block before them, they will die. Since you did not warn them, they will die for their sin. The righteous things that person did will not be remembered, and I will hold you accountable for their blood. But if you do warn the righteous person not to sin and they do not sin, they will surely... Continue Reading »

Transform from People-Pleaser to Respect-Receiver

People-Pleaser

A woman complained to me (Dr. Cloud) about a coworker who would always interrupt her while she was trying to get her job done. She acted as if her tendency to be behind in her work was her coworker’s fault. “Why do you talk to her?” I asked. “What do you mean?” she replied. “When she comes in and interrupts, why do you get into a conversation with her?” “Well, I have to. She is standing there talking.” “Why don’t you just tell her that you have work to do, or close your door and put up a ‘Do Not Disturb’ sign?” The woman looked at me with a blank stare. To have choices and to have control of her own behavior was a concept that hadn’t occurred to her. She felt that if something happened “to her,” then that was the way it had to be. There was nothing she could do to change it. When I suggested that she had many choices, she quizzed me about them. I gave her five or six suggestions, from talking to the woman about the problem, to talking to a supervisor, to asking to be moved to another area. This was a... Continue Reading »

How Do You Know If It’s Time to End a Friendship?

Cloud-End-Friendship

Today, we want to highlight a great video by Dr. Cloud that addresses the controversial question, “How do you know if it’s time to end a friendship?” He talks about who do you allow into the inner circle of your life and how to determine when to set boundaries with those close to you. Take the next 8 minutes to watch this video and learn an important secret that affects all of your relationships. Click on the picture or this link to watch the video To watch more of these insightful videos, click here.   Learn how to build rewarding friendships and protect yourself from toxic relationships with the bestselling books, Boundaries and How to Have That Difficult Conversation You’ve Been Avoiding.