Boundaries Blog — Beyond Boundaries
The Desire to Reconnect Doesn't Mean You're Crazy
You would expect that the mean one would want to reconnect and reconcile sooner than the hurt one. But that was not the pattern; there was no pattern. Both boys always wanted to get back together and play after approximately the same amount of time had passed....
How to Discern Hurt from Harm in a Relationship
Great relationships are fulfilling. Great relationships involve risk. You can't have the first without the second.
Great relationships require that you be open to taking risks—risks of being misunderstood, of alienation, of someone being hurt by you as well. It doesn't mean relationships aren't worth the risks, for the good ones are. It is simply the price of the course. No pain, no gain.
The challenge is ...
Do This One Thing to Improve Any Relationship
- Remember when I said I needed space and listening, not solutions and homework assignments? It happened again; let's fix this.
- I don't want to sound childish, but I've been trying to be more open about the job problem, and it still feels as if you want just good news from me about work. I really need you to hang in there with me.
- It feels as if you're impatient with me when I go to a deeper level now, as if I ought to have my act together. That's hard for me; are you really feeling that way?...
Beyond Boundaries Video with Dr. John Townsend
Do you ever wonder when it's the right time to reconnect with someone who broke your trust? Do you wrestle with knowing how to tell if someone has truly changed after you set boundaries with him or her? These are big questions that Dr. John Townsend answers in his book, Beyond Boundaries.
Today, we are excited to feature a 50-minute online webcast that Dr. Townsend recorded. In this video, he explains how to move past earlier pain in order to experience the love we want to enjoy....