Boundaries Blog — Boundaries in Dating
Two Reasons Why You Should Say No to Physical Intimacy in Dating
If you have hung around the church for very long, you have probably heard that God wants people to reserve sex for marriage. If you haven't and that is news to you, then we can understand the shock you might be feeling. For many people, both inside and outside of the church, it does not make sense. If sex feels so good, and is good for the relationship, and both people are consenting, then what is the problem? ...
Why You Should Insist on Respect in Dating
Respect is a necessary element for any couple to grow in love. Each person needs to feel that they are respected by the person they are getting to know. This involves creating boundaries in dating where both parties have esteem or regard for all aspects of the other. Respect is different from empathy, though any relationship needs both to be hand-in-hand.
Empathy is the ability to feel another's experience, especially painful ones. Respect is the ability to value another's experience. You may not be able to actually empathize with someone, but you can always take a position of respect for them....